Unwed Mother and Holy Communion (Teachings of the Orthodox Church)

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You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery;' but I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart. If your right eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out and throw it away from you. For it is more profitable for you that one of your members should perish, than for your whole body to be cast into Gehenna. If your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off, and throw it away from you. For it is more profitable for you that one of your members should perish, than for your whole body to be cast into Gehenna. 'It was also said, 'Whoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorce,' but I tell you that whoever puts away his wife, except for the cause of sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is put away commits adultery. 'Again you have heard that it was said to them of old time, 'You shall not make false vows, but shall perform to the Lord your vows,' but I tell you, don't swear at all: neither by heaven, for it is the throne of God; nor by the earth, for it is the footstool of his feet; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. Neither shall you swear by your head, for you can't make one hair white or black. But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes' and your 'No' be 'No.' Whatever is more than these is of the evil one. 'You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth.'* But I tell you, don't resist him who is evil; but whoever strikes you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also. If anyone sues you to take away your coat, let him have your cloak also. Whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two. Give to him who asks you, and don't turn away him who desires to borrow from you. 'You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor,* and hate your enemy.*' But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you, that you may be children of your Father who is in heaven.

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	Unwed Mother and Holy Communion (Teachings of the Orthodox Church)

QUESTION:

Can an unwed mother (single, not divorced) receive Holy Communion? If not, how is her sin different from, say, an adulterer's?

ANSWER:

The matter about which you write is a delicate, pastoral matter, the answer to which would be dictated by a variety of considerations.

If the individual involved is truly repentant and has made a honest attempt to properly raise her child while recognizing that there is a need to prevent such things from happening again, then it is my opinion that she may receive Communion.

If, however, the individual involved sees nothing whatsoever wrong with her situation and, in fact, would go so far as to state that she would do it again, then it is my opinion that she should not receive Communion until she has had a change of heart and mind.

Please understand that, at best, I can only give a general answer based on the very broad question you have asked. It is only my opinion, but any definitive answer on behalf of a specific individual in this situation must be rendered by the individual's Father Confessor alone.

Published in January 2011.

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